tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819647019327233928.post3879855618016626038..comments2023-09-24T06:01:37.374-04:00Comments on All Things Lesbian: Home Sweet Homophobialezstarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08327798063388036165noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819647019327233928.post-15938153188044484732010-05-03T12:54:57.805-04:002010-05-03T12:54:57.805-04:00I am sorry you have to deal with that. I knew my ...I am sorry you have to deal with that. I knew my sexuality at a very young age but hid it from my mother. Sadly she would often go through my room and I couldn't hid it any more. I heard many similar things from her. She had an awful temper and would call me a "lesbo" and many other things in an attempt to hurt me. I think once your father really sees that your life is in fact better being honest to who you are he'll come around. I feel sorry for parents who are conditioned to think that way. Lots of love sent your way dear.Aluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16087779887204707716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819647019327233928.post-71957435718620306932010-05-03T08:13:07.699-04:002010-05-03T08:13:07.699-04:00Dearest Laureen,
The angry man on the picture is c...Dearest Laureen,<br />The angry man on the picture is certainly not identical your father, he's frightening ugly.<br />I just can agree with your conclusion, not much to ad. <br />Parents always want "the very best" for their children, thinking they have to be if not a reproduction of themselves, at least in the straight path.<br />It seems to me that it is more difficult to come out in Great Britain, than in Flanders. Is that so?<br />Big Kiss,<br />Nadja<br /><3<3<3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819647019327233928.post-44376636982439021992010-05-02T04:59:11.102-04:002010-05-02T04:59:11.102-04:00Lol! Fashionable??! since when is being gay is fas...Lol! Fashionable??! since when is being gay is fashionable?! Jeez..Someone must said something to ya dad. Yeah, he will come around someday..you gotta be who want to be..i wish i could say the same for me..being in the closet sucks! I dont have the balls to come out..oh wait I dont have balls..just boobs! oh well visibility matters.lookatthestarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09517372986283635745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819647019327233928.post-29958708053404124492010-05-02T01:08:32.913-04:002010-05-02T01:08:32.913-04:00Isn't it odd how someone can simultaneously th...Isn't it odd how someone can simultaneously think "You're gay to be cool" and "Don't be gay, everyone will hate you"? <br /><br />I'm sorry you're going through this.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819647019327233928.post-54748738395174135212010-05-01T18:15:14.272-04:002010-05-01T18:15:14.272-04:00That's bullshit :/
The strangest thing is tha...That's bullshit :/<br /><br />The strangest thing is that when I came out to my parents my Dad used to say the same fucking ridiculous things to me! He said that I'm rebelling now 'cos I didn't know how when I was a teenager. Yes, for sure. And that I can't go shouting it out to everybody. On top of all that he told me that my girlfriend was taking advantage of me, and all sorts of horrible things... Just a few days after he had said to me that it was fine. What's wrong with the older generation??<br /><br />But try to hang in there! If he doesn't come around then that's his loss, at least, that's how I think in my own situation. You're not the only one :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819647019327233928.post-80220635590940107522010-05-01T16:32:10.738-04:002010-05-01T16:32:10.738-04:00This brings back some painful memories.
My mum was...This brings back some painful memories.<br />My mum was hysterical for months after I<br />came out and used to say crazy things like<br />"all lesbians should be taken out into the street and shot" Nice!<br />You're lucky that your mum is supportive,maybe you can ask her to talk to him.A friend of mine went to counselling sessions with his father many years after coming out.It's transformed their relationship and he wishes that they had done it years ago.<br />Maybe he would consider this once he's calmed down and become a rational human being again.<br /><br />Well done for coming out tho. Hope things get better soon.juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09354316399294140316noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819647019327233928.post-11799694356232821232010-05-01T12:56:35.168-04:002010-05-01T12:56:35.168-04:00One day that father of yours will come around and ...One day that father of yours will come around and tell you "i'm sorry". If he doesn't is just not that into you (and by that I mean he just can't understand the fact that you can love a sun/daughter who's not realy like you'de plane). My mom is like yours, we're pretty lucky; my father dosen't say much and I know I prefere it that way - he's proud of me anyway and if one day i'll get married I know he'll be there. <br /><br />Everything pass, don't let him ruin your colour proud. :)Miss Éclairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04007892979362021219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819647019327233928.post-73568323902136196132010-05-01T04:16:53.222-04:002010-05-01T04:16:53.222-04:00Hopefully your dad will come around.Probably only ...Hopefully your dad will come around.Probably only after he realizes how much what he says hurts you but eventually he probs will.Maybe he just needs to be more educated about what beinggay actually is,not just being attracted to the same sex but being true to yourself.ughaGHOSThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12833660188212046041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819647019327233928.post-90895058972417078942010-05-01T03:22:31.210-04:002010-05-01T03:22:31.210-04:00"A Strange Boy" - I'm glad it's ..."A Strange Boy" - I'm glad it's not just me. Just remember when you do come out, don't let them tell you you're not gay. Be who you are and don't be ashamed of it.lezstarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08327798063388036165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819647019327233928.post-73022618894135588552010-05-01T00:16:22.833-04:002010-05-01T00:16:22.833-04:00I really hate it when people try to invalidate who...I really hate it when people try to invalidate who you are or what you like just because it's something that they don't like or are uncomfortable with. I've seen my mother decided me and my sisters don't like certain foods just because she doesn't like them. It makes me wonder what's going to happen when I come out myself.A Strange Boyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10774131212842711376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819647019327233928.post-7479063043367990462010-04-30T18:47:09.104-04:002010-04-30T18:47:09.104-04:00I was shaking my head while reading your post and ...I was shaking my head while reading your post and still wasn't able to believe it. Seems like it's not from his own head, like somebody else told him this bullshit and now he repeats it because it is easier than the truth. On the other hand, I can't fully judge him as I'm not out to my parents. Maybe they would say these exact words... Being gay is not common in my country.Jitkahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06121460751561933460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819647019327233928.post-70499024563315994712010-04-30T11:44:27.730-04:002010-04-30T11:44:27.730-04:00Oh wow, how freaky is that? Mind you, my mother r...Oh wow, how freaky is that? Mind you, my mother recently decided to urge me to be careful because my partners (I am poly btw) might want to kill me for the insurance money.<br /><br />We don't even have insurance.....<br /><br />Oh well, you can't choose your family can you?Natja's Natteringshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02345321471190596172noreply@blogger.com